I have now put aside male fashion, shopping, beards, and any sugar, which men have been recently gifted, for a while. As of today, I am going to take Hungarian guys and their attitude towards relationships and marriage, under my loupe. As you know, I am living in Budapest for nearly 4 years, and I am a very good observer. One of the questions, which always keep popping up in my head is “why Hungarian guys don’t want to get married?”. After numerous conversations with my Hungarian and foreigner friends, I came to the conclusion that guys here are extremely spoiled.
When I observe the whole man-woman relationship in Budapest, I get the feeling that a lot of girls trying very hard to find a boyfriend/husband and so many of them are using a dating portal for that. I was offered to register to one of those websites a couple of times, where some of them are paid ones (around 1000 huf – 5 USD), and I was always asking myself, why would I pay for using some dating portal, or why would I waste my time and energy to log in there, when I can go to any bar/club and be picked by some guy there (hypothetically, as I am not looking for anybody).
AND HERE WE GO Hungarians are not willing to hit on you, they are waiting for you to approach! Sounds crazy? Well, a couple of days ago I hung out with my Hungarian friend in one of the hippest areas in Budapest, where we both spotted a lot of handsome guys, but they were so busy to talk to their male friends, that even, if Irina Shayk will pass them by, the would not react. That was the day (actually night), when my friend asked a fundamental question, “do those guys even get blood flow in their cocks?” Well, in my opinion, they do, but as confirmed by many of my friends, they like to express themselves on the internet (dating portals), rather than in a real world. As I don’t like to generalize, I did some research to verify the above statement. I logged in to one of the common dating portals, I chose as a location Budapest and within 6 hours I received 55 private messages (all from Hungarian guys), 296 people marked they want to meet me and I even received some ridiculous awards – for the hottest and most viewed person that day.
Worth to mention that my popularity on this dating portal went from very low to very high – within hours only! My popularity among Hungarian guys really amused me because so far, none of them approached me in a real world and I swear to God, I uploaded my real photo there without any photoshop!
That day, I decided to kill two birds with one stone. I searched for some good looking guys and sent them a private message with the question, “what is the reason they are using this dating portal if, with their appearance, they can get any girl in any place of Budapest”. Gábor said that he gets bored that’s why he is here (maybe he should go for running?), Sandor replied, he would like to increase his chances and Attila answered that it is another opportunity to meet somebody, I thought seriously?? What opportunity? There are hundreds of girls out there looking for their soul mates, and you are wasting your time here, as you want to increase your chances? Unbelievable, but still the best was Támas, who sent me a really kinky answer
However I don’s speak Hungarian, I use my uncle Google to translate this important message, and here’s what I got:
To my misfortune, Támas did not give me a proper answer, but as far as I understood, he offered me some oil massage with a pillow under my hips?? I think I should finally start learning Hungarian!
So as you see, we have very horny boys out there, who are even able to write sexual poems, still, I did not receive a clear answer, what the hell are all you men doing there? I could understand about elder people – 45, 50+ whose chances keep really shrinking, I have no idea why guys around 30′s wasting their time there when there are so many girls in random places around Budapest, who are waiting to be finally approached!
Another theory I heard regarding Hungarian guys being immature and not ready for relationships, is due to the fact that they love to call their mums almost every day. It wouldn’t be bad to ask your parents what they are doing, or if they are fine, but calling and asking about any advise sounds quite weird. Men, don’t you think it would be easier to ask your girlfriend or wife? (unless you have a girlfriend or wife). There was another really amusing opinion, that Hungarian guys have some sort of Turkish influence and they like to rule over a woman. I would love to be a guinea pig, in this case!.
Finally, we came to the most drastic point for Hungarian guys – MARRIAGE. I rarely see anybody here who is getting married, however, guys would not mind having kids. Not really sure what is a bigger responsibility – just a wife, or a girlfriend with two kids??
Anyway, boys don’t get me wrong, this is some general deliberation, and if you wish to speak for yourselves, please feel free to put your opinion in the comment field. Maybe there is some serious reason, which can explain your behavior or maybe a woman should have a different approach towards you? Let me know, I am really curious (and 2 million other woman as well).